Good gril“Good morning my treasured one,” your Master greets as you wander into the room still sleepy and dreamy from the events of the day before and an ensuing deep restful slumber. “Come, sit by me and let me hold you.”You pad into the room in your deliciously naked state uncaring of your nudity and comfortable in the glow of love and reverence that surrounds you this morning. Master has been good to you and the fear and mistrust of the days before are becoming just a memory. Today there is nothing but the glow of love shared, submission granted, and your reins taken in the hands of a competent and caring Master. All is right with the world.As you sit at His feet Master reaches down to adoringly hold you in His arms and bury His face in your hair breathing deeply the scent of you.“I do so love you my little one,” He begins. “There is so much I want to share with you, so much for us to explore together, so much love between us. There is so much I want to tell you my pet. I want you to fully understand what it is like to be me; what it is like to be a Dom, what it means to be a Master, and in so doing best understand the power you and your submission have over me.”“My heart,” He continues, “I am so honored that you have chosen Escort bayan me to be your Master. You, and your submission to me, are my most treasured gifts. But they are gifts that carry great responsibility, my heart. They bring me the greatest joy but also the greatest burden of excellence.”With that your revery is momentarily broken and you look concernedly up in confusion, “Sir, I do not want to be a burden to you and it pains me to think that I might possibly be,” you stammer.“No, no my pet, I am so sorry,” He quickly corrects. “I misspoke. You are not a burden at all. You are my greatest joy in life. I meant only that I feel the need to be the best I can possibly be for you at all times and in every conceivable way and that carries a great responsibility.”You lay your head back down on your Master’s lap and contemplate what he has just said and gradually drift back to that dreamy state of comfort and security. You are the feet of the man who brought you to this new life of submission and you think, perhaps for the first time, about the role he plays and the responsibility he carries in the course of your relationship with him.“At first I thought that being a Master was just about teaching and Bayan escort telling me what to do and I was simply to submit to his will at all times,” you think to yourself. “But a master is not someone who merely revels in the benefits that he reaps from the power and control that he wields over me. A Master is not just an automaton who unemotionally doles out orders and watches with amusement as his minion performs his bidding. A Master is not a person who only relishes the benefits that his superior status entitles him.”“Certainly all of these characteristics often do exist within Him. He can be demanding and at times selfish. He may genuinely enjoy and even be aroused by the power that he has over me. He may be able to expertly control his emotions, issuing his commands and enforcing his discipline with stone-faced determination.”“But a true Master, a Master such as mine, is so invested in his sub that he is actually in a way a slave himself. He is a slave to his love for me. He is a slave to his responsibility. He is a slave to the passion and the commitment. He is a slave to his overwhelming desire to protect his property at all costs. He is a slave to his slave. I know without question Escort that he loves me so much he’d literally lay down his life for me. He owns me, and his ownership owns him.”Then it dawns on you, the real paradox; that from within in a truly loving and caring D/s relationship there is no way to tell who is the master and who is the slave. It is a power exchange but the power is in fact not only exchanged in one direction. On the surface it appears that the Master holds all the cards and that the sub is only there to do his bidding. But in truth, the awesome responsibility of being a Master is a slavery of its own that binds him to his submissive as surely as if by ropes and chains. Power is indeed exchanged in both directions. It is a mutual dependence. There can be no submission without dominance. And there can be no dominance without submission.“We are indeed chained to one another,” you realize and in that recognition comes a deeper comfort and security in knowing that we do indeed need one another and depend on one another for all that we are. The entire notion of a D/s relationship has taken on a whole new dimension. You vow anew that you will do everything in your power to give in to your submission from the very heart of your being. In this moment of realization you commit to yourself, “He deserves the very best I can give Him, and I will tap the depths of my strength to submit as fully and completely as I can possibly manage. I want to give myself to him without reservation. I want to and I will.”