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Does feminism hurt masculinity?Not really sure this is the place to have any kind of blog, but at the same time i like the idea of expressing myself on a site where no one really knows me.Huh…that’s kind of cowardly isn’t it? Either way, I wanted to talk about sexist people and actions that I’ve witnessed recently and why they came to be. This should go without saying but i don’t think myself as sexist. Yea women and men are different, but does that mean that one of us is inferior to the other? Absolutely not. So why is the stereotype that plague our sexes so strictly upheld. Women claiming that they can’t do certain jobs, men not being able to show any real emotion outside of anger, lust, and arrogance. Its absurd to think about and yet i find it in my life daily. I was working part time at a department store at 16 when i encountered my first feminist. She was talking in the break room to one of our co-workers about having to deal with the absurd amount of men that just couldn’t get the hint and that was always trying to get in her pants. Now I being me just had to give my two scents because it eventually turned into her dogging men. I asked her elazığ rus escort in what way was a man supposed to show interest in her if not by approaching her and trying to spark up conversation.She told me there was nothing wrong with trying to talk to her, but that we as men needed to come correctly at her and try to stimulate her mind before trying to do the same to her body. I asked her why then did she go to a bar and complain about the men trying to hit on her when there is little to no intelligent conversation in that kind of setting. The result was her ranting for about 45 minutes, well after our break was over, about how men are dogs who only know how to look on the surface and think with their dicks and yadda yadda yadda you can guess the rest of it.I try to be an open minded guy, I knew that this woman didn’t speak for all women or feminist out there but her complaints I often here echoed in the voices of so called feminist everywhere. They complain about how its a man’s world, how they have such heavy burdens under the expectations of men and our concept of beauty and that as a small girl it almost elazığ rus escort bayan destroys their sense of identity. But really, hearing women dog men flips a switch in me, one that makes me believed, even if its not meant this way, that I’m included in the bashing. “Masculinity is ~so~ fragile.” Heh. I laugh because honestly at that statement all i can do is laugh. If i get angry, protest, become involved, speak up about how degrading it feels to have women openly laugh at masculinity then i prove (as i’m sure this blog will eventually end up there, if so hello ladies) the statement right. But if i grin and bear it, not say a word and laugh at my brothers who do protest what i feel is the equivalent of blowing up feminism, then i only aid the problem. Don’t get me wrong, I understand. It is unfair that a six year old girl is expected to play with barbie, a “Perfect” woman and be held to her standards. It is unfair that women undergo scrutiny when it comes to their sex lives and of course their appearance. But ladies not every man is out there holding you up to unfair standards, and not every man that rus escort elazığ opens his mouth or pays you a compliment is automatically trying to get in your panties so would it kill you to stop thinking of them as some sort of predators?I mean granted you are going to find those who are really just trying to fuck, its kind of a state of mind, but can you really blame them? Men emulate the traits they thing attract women, especially women in their area. If a man sees another man always boasting, always shining, always spending tons of money on his ladies because he has that many ladies, the other man is going to try and do the same. So when a man encounters a lady that perks his interest and she states that she’s looking for someone smart, funny and a good head on his shoulders, said man will try to show off those qualities even if they don’t have them….Ok, let me stop. This isn’t an excuse for those who are willingly deceiving people just to get sex, and no i suppose i can’t really blame you ladies for thinking every dude who opens his mouth is trying to stick his dick in yours, but from a guy who is genuinely trying to find a woman to keep in his life that shit is hella annoying. I just want to live in a world where i’m judged by MY merits, where i don’t have to feel like i’m begging the woman i want to give me the time of day because all she see’s is another brother trying to run game. I guess i’m asking for the impossible, but then again I am the ImpossibleAce.